Connecticut Friends School
Connecticut Friends School is built on these Six Quaker Values. For each testimony, below, we list several activities in italics, followed by the way we apply and weave each activity into our curriculum.
SIMPLICITY
Use financial and natural resources carefully.
We make use of our existing rich offerings such as public libraries, museums, nature centers, and historical sites.
Value the spirit over material objects.
We celebrate acts of kindness and generosity instead of bringing toys or electronics for show and tell.
Keep popular culture in perspective at school to avoid distraction from what is truly important.
We attune students to the wonders of nature and a sense of competence through hands-on crafts such as weaving.
Keep life simple so we are free to live in harmony and alignment with soul’s purpose.
Service learning is a priority.
More from Friends Journal on Simplicity
• “Favorite Writings on Simplicity,” by Michel Avery
The practice of simplicity is one of constantly making choices.
• “Finding Simplicity in My Life,” by Robert Bennett
This is easily the testimony I think of, and struggle to practice most, in my life.
• “Life in a Box,” by Andrew Huff
It’s not about what’s inside the bin. It’s about everything outside it.
PEACE
Build conflict resolution skills.
Foster effective communication and alternatives to violence.
See conflict as a springboard to moral growth.
Use the conflict at hand as part of curriculum, asking each person involved to take responsibility for his or her part in escalating tension.
Seek elegant, simple solutions to problems or disagreements.
Encourage creative problem-solving and assume students have worthy, practical ideas.
Make decisions by consensus or the “sense of the meeting.”
Empower students to share responsibility for the school culture, using the idea of voting sparingly.
More from Friends Journal on Peace
• “A Peace Perspective,” by Mary Lord
How do we build real peace that is more than the absence of war?
• “The Golden Rule Shall Sail Again,” by Arnold (Skip) Oliver
In 1958, five men in a sailboat challenged American nuclear testing.
• “Finding a Way to Peace,” by Christopher Stern
If we do not learn to forgive and love, then how can we live in peace?
INTEGRITY
Let your life speak: your outer life reflects your inner life.
Nurture each student’s inner moral compass, cultivating inner motivation not driven by externals such as grades.
Treat others with respect and honesty.
Set a tone of high expectations of students’ work and behavior, guiding students in the process of self-assessment.
Acknowledge interconnectedness and essential oneness.
Anchor academics in thematic studies and an integrated curriculum.
Draw out the teacher within.
Mirror students’ gifts and interests, giving them choice in projects and assignments.
More from Friends Journal on Integrity
• “Witnessing to Integrity in an Untruthful World,” by Shelley E. Cochran
Often, telling the truth seems relatively easy compared to witnessing to Truth.
• “Six Steps for Investing with Integrity,” by Pamela Haines
Our choices around money need to be based in the values and faith that sustain us.
• “Student Voices Project: Focus on Integrity,” by FJ Staff
As one teacher said, “Integrity doesn’t always look like you expect it to look.”
EQUALITY
Respect different people and different ideas.
Encourage families of diverse race, socioeconomic status, family structure, and faith backgrounds to apply.
Honor all faiths.
Do not try to convert students to Quakerism.
Celebrate a rich community made up of many cultures.
Invite members of various nationalities to share their stories in the classroom.
Reflect a broad, inclusive spectrum of the global family.
Ensure that resources, books, and units of study reflect this goal.
More from Friends Journal on Equality
• “The Social Justice Testimony,” by Dwight L. Wilson
Joining a meeting does not purify us of racism.
• “Equality Among Today’s Vikings,” by George Lakey
Quaker testimonies don’t have to be compromised in politics.
• “The Spectrum of Equality,” by Aria Gratson
The first time I was aware of someone using “gay” as an insult was in sixth grade.
STEWARDSHIP
Protect and care for the Earth in a sacred trust.
Walk lightly on the Earth, recycle and reuse whenever possible, and reduce the amount of energy we consume.
Promote environmental, economic, and social sustainability.
Teach students to appreciate their world via scientific inquiry, artistic expression, outdoor education adventures, and a thorough exposure to natural resources.
Teach social justice and the need for equal access to resources.
Begin in the youngest classroom to instill a sense of social responsibility and service work such as coat drives, fundraisers, partnerships with outside organizations, and many more initiatives.
More from Friends Journal on Stewardship
• “Composting as Holy Sacrament,” by Louis Cox
Composting is about radical transformation—our only hope for our uncertain future.
• “Stewardship Brought to the Streets of Our Capital,” by Jonathan Kornegay
I got to see the beauty of activism, stewardship, and Quakerism working together.
• “Energy Use in the Classroom,” by Louise Pappa
When I was in sixth grade, I helped make a significant change at my school.